Filed under: A Bit Of Inspiration, Advertising, Attitude & Aptitude, Authenticity, Communication Strategy, Confidence, Corporate Evil, Creativity, Empathy, Insight, Marketing, Marketing Fail, Perspective, Relevance, Resonance
So before I begin with my post, I have some good news …
This will be the last post for 13 days.
THIRTEEN!
I’m in China all next week and then when I return, I’m having 3 days off – of which one of them is to celebrate Otis’ 5th birthday!
Five. Can’t believe it.
Anyway, I know I’ve just made your impending weekend more enjoyable so have fun and see you when I’m back on the 12th … though there will be a special birthday post the day before for my little one.
So now back to the post …
One of the things I hate is when a client mistakes being premium priced for meaning they have premium customers.
That just isn’t true, even more so now with the access to finance. Seriously, it’s like banks deny the 2008 crash never happened. Mind you, when you’re bailed out by the public, it didn’t.
Anyway …
Being premium priced – especially when the brand is in a mainstream marketing and comparing themself to mainstream competitors – simply means you cost more.
There may be reasons for that cost premium.
Great and valid reasons … but that doesn’t mean the audience who are buying the products are more sophisticated or educated.
If anything, it might be the opposite.
Some may be doing it to overcome their insecurities.
Some may be doing it to satisfy their delusional ego.
Some may be doing it because it represents something they’ve worked – and work – hard for and want to protect or defend or nurture.
But whatever the reason, the vast majority of people who choose these brands are, in the main, everyday people who justify the price premium because they offer something additionally appealing – be it professional, functional or emotional.
There is nothing wrong with this.
There is nothing unappealing about this.
In fact, it is an amazing, given we are talking about people making decisions that cost them more because something is so important to them.
And yet so many marketers want to feel their customers are the wealthiest and most discerning of all, ignoring the fact that if that were true, then their product wouldn’t be premium priced, because for the wealthy, it would be cheap.
I recently had a meeting with someone from a mainstream, mass market brand who tried to convince me their customers were the 1%, despite all evidence proving otherwise. They also tried to claim their marketing was ‘high-brow’ as it meant only the wealthy would truly ‘grt it’.
That’s right, they were suggesting intelligence was linked to wealth.
I know a lot of people may believe that, but even if it were true – which it isn’t – they are mistaking wealth for opportunity … which I appreciate is becoming more and more influenced more by being able to afford a private education given governments are underfunding state options, ignoring the fact an educated population creates greater possibilities for the entire nation.
I digress.
Again.
Sorry, it’s just these are subjects that make me so angry and upset.
Anyway, I cannot tell you how much fun I had putting them right … how much I enjoyed explaining to them that their audience were far more in line with average household income than the 1% … but at the end of the day, I know it was all in vain because every single day, I look at ads and see ‘premium priced’ brands acting like their customer base are better than everyone else, which ultimately demonstrates marketing is less about understanding your audience and more about comforting the boardroom ego.
Filed under: A Bit Of Inspiration, Attitude & Aptitude, Corporate Gaslighting, Culture, Devious Strategy, Education, Egovertising, Peace, Perspective, Prejudice, Relevance, Resonance
I appreciate I’m the last person to be saying this, but recently I’ve been exposed to some people who can only be described as having a very healthy ego.
You know the types … they say “I” instead of “we”.
They claim sole ownership for everything they’ve been a part of.
They talk about how their way is the way everyone will eventually adopt.
They are very in your face, view anyone who has a different point of view as the enemy and tends to align only with those who are of a similar make-up or are unfiltered in their adoration.
This does not mean these people are not good or clever.
They are.
Whether they are as good or clever as they think they are is another thing altogether.
But here’s the thing, working with them can be a nightmare.
You either play their game or you get discarded and slandered.
The amount of people who have written about these sorts of people on Corporate Gaslighting is incredible … and yet, because of their ego, they see their actions as ‘decisive’ rather than bullying and because they get stuff done, companies often view them as stars rather than grenades.
But here’s the thing …
The bigger the ego, the more they’re hiding.
An insecurity.
A past wrong.
A lack of knowledge in an area they should know.
At this point I should say you shouldn’t try to find what they’re hiding and then exploit it because then all you’re doing is being as bad as them, but there are also times when that is the only alternative.
And here’s how to do it without being a complete dick.
Listen.
Listen very, very carefully to what they’re saying.
Ask for clarification on points that may be ambiguous.
Give examples of situations where a different approach was successfully used to hear their perspective on it.
Don’t attack.
Don’t antagonise.
The point is there are always alternative ways to approach every problem and anyone who suggests otherwise is wrong.
The bully may believe their approach is the best. They may think that what they did had greater effectiveness than all the alternatives. But the reality is so much of that is subjective so if you let your ears do their job, then I guarantee you they’ll hear things that will allow you to offer an alternative that they themselves, will have created.
It’s not easy.
Even done gently and calmly it can be intimidating.
But it can work and the beauty of the egotist is that as much as they want the spotlight, they’re petrified of anyone who has the power to take it away from them, so they ensure that in the future, they’re also given a starring role.
And if none of that works, then you can always try Tom Hanks advice which is pretty good.
Or leave.
Because there’s never going to be enough room in any company for anyone if an individual believes they are the company.
Filed under: A Bit Of Inspiration, Attitude & Aptitude, Comment, Confidence, Culture
So I like going down YouTube rabbit holes.
When I’m traveling, I find myself in the middle of the night – jetlagged – spending hours seeing where I end up.
There’s some places I normally start in ….
Football … Video Games … Abandoned Buildings … Fail Army … How Ridiculous … or even People Telling Their Parents They Are Going To Become Grandparents … but within an hour, I’m in all manner of weird and wonderful places.
Recently I came across ProducerMichael.
Funnily enough, he is a UK music/film producer who is living the life in LA.
He appear super successful and basically makes my spending habits look utterly amateur … and yet, even though I should hate him for his over-the-top lifestyle, you can’t help but like him.
Part of it is the enthusiasm he approaches everything.
Part of it is the sense he can’t believe his luck he’s living this life.
Part of it is he is a Brit who has wholeheartedly embraced the American dream.
I wish I’d been able to do that when I was in LA.
I wish I could have just let go of my cynical side and embraced the World where the more you have, the better you are.
But what I like about ProducerMichael is that while he does all that, he still seems pretty open to express both his vulnerabilities and his grandiose idiocies.
Yes he is trying too hard with his earrings and conspicuous consumption.
Yes you never quite get what the relationship is between him and the videorgrapher.
But weirdly, despite the obvious try-hardness to stay relevant, the fact he was obviously successful compared to the countless other YouTube wannabes, he’s a breath of fresh air.
And by that, I mean a more enjoyable waste of your time.
Filed under: A Bit Of Inspiration, Attitude & Aptitude, Audio Visual, Comment, Differentiation
I’ve written a lot about the Getty image lookalike who is robbing me of the profits from my face.
Yes, I got my own back at Cannes, but he seems to be doing a lot better than me in earning cash from my ugliness.
But recently I was sent something that is even more unnerving.
Someone who looks even more like me than Getty man … and he looks so like me that my wife actually once mistook him for me.
Or that’s her excuse anyway.
If you think your Monday is bad, imagine how this guy in the band ‘In Deed’ will feel when he discovers he looks like me. Worse, that we also both play the guitar. Your worst nightmare?
Indeed …
Filed under: Comment
So today is my little boy’s 5th birthday.
FIVE.
My god, how did that happen so quickly?
It feels like yesterday that I announced him to the World, let alone introduced him to the World … but here he is, having another birthday.
I’ve written so much about this kid.
How much he has gone through in such a short time.
How many countries he has lived in before he even turned 4.
How he saved his Dad from falling too far into darkness when his Mum – Otis’ Nona – died.
I love everything about him, especially his utterly infectious enthusiasm for life.
His is boisterous and sensitive.
Imaginative and respecting.
Strong and gentle.
He is – for me and his Mum – perfect.
As I’ve written many a time, I wish he’d slow down growing up so fast, but despite that, every day is a wonderful adventure.
Sure, he still loves Elodie, Transformers and laughing at FailArmy … but every day there’s something new.
A thing he learnt, a thing he did, a thing he experienced, an idea he had.
Hearing about his day … his views on things … seeing what he gets excited and inspired by is a genuine honour.
He is curious, compassionate and cheeky as hell.
He is my boy and I love him with all I’ve got.
So to my dearest Otis, happy, happy birthday … you are the best of me by miles.
Rx